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When the intellect wants a plan, a scientific study, a foolproof system, or “10 Steps To Success”, the spirit reminds us that these things miss the point of being human. Your spirit doesn’t care about your plan, it cares about what you are feeling. Right now.
A fulfilled life eludes us when we opt to place our trust in intellect over experience. This shows up as endless debate and dueling theories about how life should work, rather than a deep respect for our own actual experience of it. Meanwhile, life goes on unlived. You can step away any time you choose.
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  • Misunderstanding Experience
    Such is the case with words about how a human experiences the world and their life. I encounter many people who have never used the words we use for those messages. They are likely to fall back on more simplistic meanings of the words rather than the intended message.


  • Unless You Say No
    No one I know is regularly on top of managing this messy influx of data. The complaints about it are nearly universal. Which means we have a universal problem: we can’t seem to say no. No is the solution, and the only reasonable one that I know of. Yet, that seems to be the one thing I have the more trouble with.

    Email is on of life's bright, shiny object

  • The Importance Of Importance
    So, what of those events that we are likely to forget if they don’t get entered into a calendar? What significance does that hold? It is likely that is meant to tell us something about who we are too, rather than the importance of the event: a valuable and honest message about our purpose and true mission in the world might be found in how little we can actually commit to a calendar.